How to Make Male Masturbation Better

May 7th 2012

Of course, nothing can replace the feeling of having real sex with a live partner, but thanks to man and his inventions, you can get pretty much the same sensations in an artificial way. This comes in handy if you don’t have access to a partner easily. So just do what you gotta do and make do with your hands and some help from other factors to make masturbation a great experience.

Get yourself a masturbator

If women have their vibrators, then men have their masturbators. Men are not limited to cheap-looking toys with inferior quality; now there are lots of masturbators in the market that will last for a long time and produce great results. Look for ones that are made of new materials such as Cyberskin, which recreates the feeling of a real vagina. And you are not limited to vaginas either. There are masturbation sleeves that feature mouth and anal openings for those who want to simulate the feeling of blowjobs and anal sex.

Watch good porn

Porn is everywhere on the internet and you won’t have any trouble looking for XXX clips. But not all readily-available porn is good stuff. So if you want to make most of your time, watch only porn that really interests you. If you have a particular fetish, then go look for it. There are porn sites that offer only the best porn for your tastes. You may have to shell out a little for them, but at least you get to watch what you really like.

Lube up

So many men still forget the benefits of a good lubricant. A dry vagina is never fun, so why subject your penis to a rough and dry palm? Get a multi-purpose lubricant and use it generously whenever you jack off. Water-based lubes are the best since it can be used on anything. Pour some on your favorite penis sleeve and jack off to your heart’s content.

Take your time

Most men are used to jacking off in a fast-paced manner, but why not try letting your orgasm build up for a change? Your hand and penis are not going anywhere, plus with pacing your orgasm, you can practice controlling your climax, which will help you big time in satisfying your partner in bed. Practice with different strokes and use your masturbator well.

He only wants it his way

Apr 27th 2012

One of the late, great Frank Sinatra’s biggest hits was the song My Way, written by ‘50s teen idol Paul Anka. It’s a  pretty silly song, actually, and has even become the stuff of legend in one Southeast Asian country where there have been numerous deaths in karaoke bars when drunken patrons fight over who and how it should be sung.

Some men take the song too literally, and they take this odd machismo all the way to the bedroom. We’re talking about men who insist on having sex only their way. They don’t care what you enjoy, they only want to get laid in a manner that suits them.

You may want to use sex toys, and he doesn’t. He may want you to give him blow jobs, but refuses to go down on you.

If you have such a partner, you can either live with his misplaced version of manhood, or you can tell him to go fuck himself. Or, you can take a third path, which is to open his eyes to the new world order. Tell him it’s the 21st century already, in case he hasn’t noticed.

There is the possibility that he grew up in a culture where men consider women as second class citizens, or so helpless and weak that they need to be told what to do. Even in bed. This trait is still fairly common in many countries.

If your partner does not see you and treat you as his sexual equal, show him that he has a problem. Assert yourself in bed. Be aggressive and show him that you want to be the boss, at least 50 percent of the time. With a little bit of luck, he may yet realize the truth.

Frank Sinatra may have sung My Way, but his daughter Nancy had an even bigger hit. You know the one. These Boots Are Made for Walking. As her song goes, “one of these days these boots are gonna walk all over you…”

Worry no more: Tips to buy your first sex toy

Jan 25th 2012

Many people appreciate sex a lot. The more there is new to discover, the more they want to try. People have a lot of access in finding ways to satisfy their pleasure. There are pornographic films, pornographic magazines and even websites; this can help people to satisfy their desire. Before people are, contented on their fingers, self-masturbation using their own flesh can make their day but today it is a lot different.

As years go by, sex toys became a hit and many people want to try. For first timers who worry a lot on first time buying their sex toys these are some tips to consider:

First, think of what kind of sex toy you want to buy. Look for different websites to know the different kinds of sex toys. Consider the level of curiosity that you are feeling to that specific sex toy. Know if you want sex toy for anal or oral sex, also know if you want a vibrator or just a handy sex toy. Second, after knowing what sex toy you want to have, made sure that you are financially stable to buy your ideal sex toy. There are many toys to choose from. There are cheap and expensive one but still consider the quality. Third, visit some stores with many sex toys or go online shopping. Look for the sex toys of your choice then start analyzing the product with its color, size and more. Take time in analyzing that product, for sure you do not want your first sex toy to be a failure. Lastly, buy the product. Going to stores is good but online shopping is better. It is more convenient for you because it will be deliver at home. After having your sex toy the feeling of success will surely achieved.

Your first sex toy will be your door to another adventure on sex. After having your sex toy you can now start exploring and satisfying yourself. It is not bad to explore, it is another way of finding answers to your curiosity. Buying your first sex toy will be your guide if you are going to buy again. The flaws that you have encountered before can be your guide for not committing the same mistake.

Physical contact is good but using sex toys is better. You want to know why? Find the answer and surely, you will be satisfied.